sajirisays

Many a times, we come across statements like, “Oh you’re dating? Life toh set hi hai na fir!” I’d like to raise a question to that. Why do we predominantly assume that the person’s life is on the right track if he/she is in a relationship? It is safe to say, that a relationship (for that matter, any relationship) is a PART of our lives. One may share each and every excrutiating detail about life to his partner, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the person may then automatically, live a pain-free or “sane” life. As aforementioned, a relationship we are in, is a part of our life and NOT our entire life. One can be in a mature, loving and healthy relationship and not be okay about other things in life, at the same time. We just need to normalize the fact, that an unstable person CAN be in a relationship. Who isn’t mentally unstable nowadays? The times are bad, and worse for committed people when we assume their life is perfectly fine, simply because they’re in a relationship. S...

Imagine, you just had a rough fight with your best friend over something sensitive and you both bump into each other at the same party that weekend. You still haven’t resolved the fight and are not on talking terms with each other, but there are way too many mutual friends at the party and you can’t avoid them. You and your friend are standing with the same group of people and suddenly your friend goes, “It’s funny what happened yesterday!” and goes about saying something you wouldn’t imagine. He/She starts to talk about the root of the fight you had. She blurts out something superlatively offensive. Oh but wait, everyone’s laughing! Calling your friends out on their insecurities is not fun guys. Even if you think, it is world class humor, trust me it doesn’t hurt less, than being stabbed in the back. Sardonic humor might be your way of relating to the world, but let me tell you, the world doesn’t work that way. People get hurt, they might even lose their self-esteem. It might be a...

INFIDELITY. IS IT A BIGGER CONCEPT THAN WE THINK? Is Infidelity found only in relationships? Or is it bigger than that? Infidelity is defined as “Violation of a moral obligation” Do we morally oblige ourselves at times? For an example, let’s take into consideration a boy named Rahul. He is in the 12 th grade, he has a stable relationship with his parents and is also very focused about his career. He isn’t overly ambitious but has some goals that he wants to fulfill. The day arrives. The day when he has to go for an internship interview which is going to award him with such a good experience. He decides he wants to go, but on that day, he tells himself, “I will get into a good university, no matter what.” And without any internal cross-questioning, he decides against going for the interview. The problem here might be anything- subconsciously being anxious or having a mild fear of failure. But don’t we all do this? Decide one thi...

  22nd MAY 2021, 2:17 PM: When I say I got lucky in the parent’s department, I mean it. I don’t know how they do it, but they never fail to amaze me by doing things silently. I have always been a confused and indecisive child, and I don’t think I will ever stop being that, because I know I have a place to go to. I have a home. Someone rightly said that a “home” doesn’t always have to be a place, it can also be a person, an entity or even a notion. My home has always been Aai Baba and I never plan to change that. It’s been a rough time for the three of us, more for them. And it was all because of me. Yes, we’re almost past that now, but I don’t think I will ever be able to forgive myself for the two years of absolute stress I let them go through. But they did. They forgave me, time and again.  Which is why I know for a fact that I got the best parents, the best friends and the best supporters. Because I don’t know whether I will be okay in the future, but they sure do . And th...

DROP EVERYTHING TO WATCH THESE 6  NETFLIX ORIGINALS NETFLIX was founded in 1997 by Reed Hastings and Marc Randolph in Scotts Valley, California. As of October 2020, Netflix had over 195 million paid subscriptions worldwide. 1) THE QUEEN'S GAMBIT (2020) Based on Walter Tevis' 1983 novel, this miniseries describes the life of Elizabeth Harmon and her passion for chess. It doesn't matter if you don't know how to play the game, the series will keep you attached to it, by the amazing storyline and riveting performances. 2) MINDHUNTER (2017) Created by Joe Penhall, Mindhunter is an American psychological crime thriller based on the true-crime book with the same name. The series revolves around 2 FBI agents and a psychologist working in the behavioral sciences unit of the FBI in Virginia. They are seen interviewing imprisoned serial killers to understand how they think, with the hope of applying this knowledge to solve ongoing cases. The plot is revealed in an interesting m...